Many friends have shared this great post. Does anyone else have an #xplan equivalent that you are willing to share? By the way, if you have younger kids without cell phones, come up with a secret code phrase that they can call you with from a land line if they are ever uncomfortable with something going on at a friend's house or a birthday party, etc. Even younger children can find themselves in tricky situations. So many creative parents out there-- let's build a community and help one another!